#title ambassador of homosexuality
#author mk zariel
#date Summer 2024
#source Retrieved on Jun 14 2024 from https://unfuturingzine.com/unfuturing-01-summer24.pdf.
#lang en
#pubdate 2024-06-14T19:50:09
#topics queer, lesbian, feminism, neurodivergence, poetry, assimilationism, youth liberation



queers like us ache to carve ourselves starring roles in the pageant

called gay rights. become picture-perfect

assimilated gays who’ve never once had an emotional breakdown

queers like us can’t have problems can we? if we do, you will realize

your hierarchies spell death for our chosen family

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so queers like us create the illusion of the normal

erase the the way a slur not yet reclaimed

burns holes in luminous queer skin, our relatives claiming they don’t think of us as gay

and worst of all, we’re free: to be complicit in murder, to marry our oppressors

but in three fifths of the country, not all that free from conversion therapy.

appeasement is our world–

you might even feel—heaven forbid—embarrassed by your gay jokes in the chat

if you realized your trolling was more earth-shattering than annoying

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we are the palatable queers in stock photos and wholesome tv shows

a legion of gay best friends, anti-heroes, ghosts

drawn in eternal smiles, then struggle that paints our existence

as a tragedy. we don’t talk about activist burnout

the perpetually stressed lesbians who cry all night to kimya dawson

wondering if the day after the revolution

they’ll finally get to take a deep breath.

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in your so-called representation, we’re too stressed

to recall the days when we were preschoolers

who stared at the other girls, feeling like an alien being for aching

to sit next to her at circle time and be her world

sometimes we still feel like sad gay preschoolers—

but we shape ourselves on the daily to win begrudging smiles of acceptance

sometimes softly pitying stares, never the bring-down-heteronormativity-with-me-baby

kind of love that only queers can have for one another

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maybe we can become the queers who declare to straight society

we are done being perfect humans.

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i am not your ambassador of homosexuality

doomed to keep smiling for your straight opinions

never discover the liberation i can embrace

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not your sob story, not the teenage statistic

you trot out at fundraisers in your cheesy suit and tie

to make donors to your “nonprofit”

feel straight and self-important.

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and by the way, i might have even volunteered with you

if only you had started an affinity group.

but you didn’t, and the last time you checked your privilege was never. so today

our queerness is everything your heteronormativity stands against—

both a revolutionary force and the way my heart

bursts into queer love and mild panic when i see any other woman

maybe tonight we can do our preschool selves proud:

our queer struggle is not yours to claim